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5 Solid Reasons why You are the Only Validation You Need

With the dictionary definition below it can be deduced that a great deal of validations involves the opinions and verdicts of those observing the object but most often than not these validations are biased which is where the concept of internal and external validations comes into play.

But why would these external validations be biased?

It could stem from many factors and these factors are mostly dependent on trends, programs run by those involved, belief systems, paradigms and the worst of all segregation and biased preferences.


It can be said that the world is cold when you look at how some people and factors are sidelined simply because the majority deem them unworthy to be upvoted even if that which is scorned has a potential to birth great magnificence.


Below We will delve into some of these factors, why they are the pillars of the decision making process of a great many and how to transcend them so you can manifest a greater version of who/what you are right now, after all you are limitless but the question is;

Do you believe this to be true?


If yes then kudos, keep studying so you can discover more keys to strengthen that foundation but if your answer is no, then why is that so and are you willing to see different?


If yes then level with Us and a greater version of yourself will become evident to you which will grant you access to the depths within you from whence an even greater you can become manifest.


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Protecting the Sacred Innocence


Being rejected isn't always a bad thing, the only reason one might feel so is if there are past traumas where people abruptly left them, hence it warped their understanding of what is.


And most times these traumas are suppressed, because there were birthed from a time the little one had no understanding of why all of a sudden the love it was showered with was abruptly taken away with everyone pulling it every which way; bombarded and confused by the expectations and projections that comes with growing up.

The depressed souls yawn for a meaning; a direction but not much avenues are made to set these souls free(even though freedom is an eternal right but ONLY THOSE THAT INTEGRATE THIS will ever access the abundance it has to offer) instead they are placed on meds and sometimes stigmatized for being lost in a world "they didn't ask to be in".


Though that is not a healthy way to see the world, because it only fuels the victims mindset which is a recipe for self loathing activities which perpetuates the loop of pain and misery thereby making sure that the later ones bank on those foundations.


How sad it is that many are unconscious of their subconscious patterns which is the home of these tendencies that are so subtle that one might mistake their existence to be one riddled with bad luck and mishaps.


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Weathering the Violent Storm Within


Segregation has so torn the world apart to the point that even close ones could literally project on the young just so it can be fashioned into the categories of the society.


It was beautifully coined in in the movie Divergent, where Trish and those of the dystopian world were split into factions which sidelined them and kept them in line to make sure the system they believed was the most perfect could be maintained; striving to maintain order in a clear chaos.


How incredible it is that that world is the same as the one we live in but many might see that movie as just fiction.


Why do rebels exist?

Why is there a slum?

Why is the hierarchy praised as the best way of being?


That is the very reason the movie; Assassin's Creed was coined in where the Templars and the Assassins were locked in an age old brawl over freedom of thought and being or obeying a central government and stoke the system that drains the many off their sacred innocence.


The violent/angry ones just want to be heard; they just want to be understood...not judged but there is a miscommunication, hence they feel the need to go ballistic since nothing seems to be working.


I mean, someone might try to shout on top of their voice about that which hurts within and what almost everyone would say and think is that "he's just a cry baby. Grow up and take care of your own sh*t(which they should)", but the very moment he does exactly what they said, wipes off his tears and hides that pain in the guise of brutality, just a gunshot and everyone looks their way, hence the once cry baby found a source of power and draws others like him to himself.


Humans complain about the state of the world they woke up in but who made the world this way?

Surely not all of you are actively messing the world up but almost everyone one way or the other is contributing which is where the knowing of making Conscious decisions and living your best life comes in.


Yes one might be rejected if their behavior/attitude repels everyone around them...though sometimes it's just a simple case of misunderstanding and sometimes the individual is just an a**hole.


Regardless, violence does little to ease the pain within. Yes to a being fuming with rage, vengeance can be seen as the only way to ease that turmoil and that state of being is perfectly understood but then again, is the individual actually sure of the source of such turmoil, is it a stimuli from the outside or is it a trait that needs to be understood and better harnessed to make something better out of that which hurts?


Don't get this wrong, triggers are excruciating and very blinding to the point that the light can be made out to be darkness, but isn't that it right there?


Triggers are gifts, Divine keys nudging the individual to look beyond the pain to actually understand what hurts but most often than not the ego is so impulsive that any being engaging it literally banks on any inspiration that it proffers.


Projections and maiming others can never sate the ache within, if anyone doubts it try projecting pain and misery on others and after about 4 - 9 hours, sit and really peruse on what happened without trying to validate your actions, just see the situation as a whole and you will almost always see that you didn't need to do what you thought was a must(that is if you are being real with yourself).

Many atimes the ego might be tested and to an impulsive being that was already fuming because of the aches within will see that opportunity as a way to take out the trash on another and mehn! the brawl that ensues will be akin to UFC.


O! humans, what have you turned this world into?

Well no one can be blamed, because "when you get to Rome you behave like the Romans" and since this is the world a lot woke up in they tend to align with the already existing standards but this is where that great decision comes into play, are you doing it for the trend or is a better way possible?


Sure some of the foundations laid before can still be revamped to serve the collective which implies that external validations might be welcomed but when it comes to the affairs of your inner world that right there is entirely up to you and if you choose to outsource that power to externals surely more of that power will be given out to others which inevitably turns the individual into a puppet for those that have chosen to act in line with what they believe to be true.


There is No Power Except the One You Acknowledge

True Power is Never Given, it is Taken by Those that Believe that they Deserve it


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Surfing the Flow that is Life


Life is a school and I had to learn this through my past endeavors as the Creative Designer at Rex Designs which took a nose dive straight into the runway(the toughest battles within).

Anybody that seeks to hold you down with an image of your past stuck in their mind is just confused about what to do with their time and energy.


But because they are stuck with a past you in their minds, their growth is stunted and it will make them irritable, hence they will end up projecting.


Do not align or integrate that energy, neither should you ever try to integrate intelligence better suited for the outside in an attempt to better understand the world within.


These ones will go out of their way to unearth your perceived weaknesses but they fail to understand that weaknesses are strengths in disguise if only one is open enough to growing and harnessing them.


Choose your battles wisely, because you can lie down so people can walk all over you and they will still complain that you are not flat enough.


So find peace in the knowing that if you are living your truths(once you've discovered them) then surely naysayers will just expose themselves but in the event that the individual is aloof to their truths and their inner world then external validations is sort in a hopeless attempt to understand what makes you tick and if you've been studying this piece instead of glancing through then you know that that is a recipe to leave yourself open for barrage of programs that are not in your best interest.


Know yourself, because if you don't the world will tell you who they want you to be.


O! how lost the individual will become and the very moment the individual joins the chorus they will do same to anyone that is open to integrating from the outside in hopes of understanding and building rapport with the Self.


Man Know Thyself


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Standing Firm in Your Truth


And then I went to great lengths to birth worlds into being but after all these I could still not measure up to the standards of men which was when I realized humans don't actually know what they want, hence the retracting of that power to the Ancient Ones within which gave birth to an even greater me and same will be true for you too provided you are open to seeing and seeding the keys you've discovered thus far.


Below is a piece that perfectly coins in my journey to Gwallalah(Black Sheriff)⬇️

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Burning like the Sun,

hence darkness can not stare


Soothing like the moon,

hence the rowdy are on edged


Each fearing what's missing in them

Still trying to pass me the blame,

But they forget that sh*t stems from within 


Woe unto these misers,

For you will receive according to what you possess


Trigger tragger they project their fears

Haha! they laugh when it hurts

Not the pains of their projections,

But that of a soul betrayed by his peoples 


Chaii! the childish adults of nowadays

But how can a lie mean so much? 

O! it is because they've never seen such


With jealousy and rage they burn within,

But how can you hate that which you do not love? 


Misunderstood, they fail to

comprehend the power from the Old Ones


Arrogant is what they say but

that is because they can't see Us


Never will my past be used against Us

Woe unto those that still believe in the past me

For you will stay down if you don't allow changes to be

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What Does Success Mean to You?


To some it's getting a fat check, to some it's the length of their bank accounts, to some it's the shape and figure that they've been blessed with...there are many variations to this which is where your own truth comes in.


What does success mean to you?

Because if you measure your destination by another man's distance surely you will leave yourself in the dust and how sad it is that there are many copies but few originals despite the fact that everyone is innately an original and that right there is what the age old war between the Templars and the Assassins have morphed into.


Sure that was just fiction but the shadow leaders are not myths though many might make them out to be conspiracy theories and this piece is not about them but about the standards that are milking men of their sacred innocence and how to harness it again, because believe it or not that essence can never be tainted neither will it ever be depleted, because just like the Cosmos nothing created can ever constrict it.


The only reason anyone might feel depleted is if they lock themselves away from their truth which is why traumas and triggers hurt so much, because it reminds the individual of a time when that sacred innocence brought grace and glory but was abruptly cut short and no one actually explained why it was shut down so everyone had to shut up and align with the standards that the many are already banking on.

True freedom is never given, you have to work for it for physical chains are nothing compared to the tiny boxes that people's minds have been confined into.


Break out of those Boxes and You will See how Insignificant those Physical Chains are


Never Underestimate The Greatness That Rests Within You


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Bonus; What Makes You Tick?


No one can find that which they don't seek out and even though it might appear that there are coincidences, in actuality there are none, just like it's not a coincidence that you are studying this piece.


Sure you might think that you just came on the web/this space and delved into this piece, when you recline and reminisce you will see that before now they've been experiences that have been prepping you for this which is why you resonate with what's been proffered.


Life is not linear neither is it a bed of roses but is that what you believe or you are banking on it because life has supposedly been unkind to you?


No this is not to make light of the pains and triggers that has come as a result of what you've been through but just like the reason before this one, how you see the world has a profound effect on how things play out and what you attract, which is why since you've been fed up by what you've experienced so far you created a space within you which is why this paradigm shift is taking place.


The question then becomes, what will you make out of this?

Are you going to share it with others?

Has anything changed about the way you see the world?

What's your next line of action?

How far are you willing to go in search of the bliss your Soul seeks?


Learn to smile often not necessarily because everything is super great but because you are crazy enough to believe  that this can't be the end.


Perception is Key

Reality Is Subject to Perception

The Juice is in Your Drive


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What drives you? 

What are you fighting for? 

What are you living for? 

If you have none then you best find something worth dying for, because living an ignorant life doesn't help anyone not even you(paraphrasing 2pac).

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What makes each and every one of us unique isn't tied to our physical appearance or the accessories we associate with.


There's only One Me and Everything Changed when I Banked on that


There's only one you and the more you try to copy others the further away this truth moves from you.


There's only one you and if you integrate this truth you will start seeing more reasons why there's absolutely no one like you.


We all got that good!!! good!!!...you know, the stuff that makes some glow as if they are different from the rest.


Yes they are but not in that way!

The only difference is that they have embodied their truths to certain degrees, hence their truth rewards them by unleashing the sacred flame within.


Discover Your Truth 

Speak and Live it Well and it will Transform Your Being


It is buried deep within us

See past the color differences and also the need to be seen or measured by others for it can only breed competition and sticky energies which can create toxic patterns.


It's got Nothing to do with Color or Race, Religious Beliefs or Doctrines, Because Deep Down We are Interconnected


We breath the same air and share almost 80 - 90% of the same things coupled with the fact that humans do business with other humans not animals yet they can't help but slay each other, because Karma will always strike.


Man brought chaos to other creations and it is only fair that he becomes his own predator 

Isn't it crazy that man is man's worst enemy?


There would be no us if we don't work to save us, because there is no you without me and vice versa.


Look Beyond What You See and Life will Unveil it's Mysteries to You


Never place a pricetag on what you can Become, because if it were so then I wouldn't have gotten this far.


It's not always about them green bags!

This is not to say that they are irrelevant because that would be false for it is an essential part of this concrete world.


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It's about changing your belief system and ideas


It is about the activities of your mind and how you connect with yourself and the world


It's about having the balls to step away from the "comfort" of society standards that no longer serve


It's about how open you are to learning from sources you might deem unworthy as per society's standards 


It's about knowing your truths and standing by them whilst keeping in mind that no truth can harm another, hence if yours does then have a rethink

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